Val Turner
Exclusively for MoorMums, local accredited celebrant of the British Humanist Association, Val Turner, tells us about naming ceremonies.
Congratulations on your new baby!
The arrival of your new baby is a very special occasion. A non religious, Humanist naming ceremony provides a unique opportunity to celebrate their arrival and welcome them into your family and circle of friends. A ceremony can mark not only births, but adoptions, or step-parents making commitments to new step children. The point is that they are events tailor-made for you and your family. Whatever the circumstances I will help you celebrate a memorable occasion.
Why choose a naming ceremony?
Naming ceremonies are warm and happy occasions, welcoming children to the world and celebrating their arrival. Many parents want to share their joy of having a child with family and friends but do not feel that they want a traditional christening. A naming ceremony means so much more than simply giving your child their name. It’s a unique occasion for you and the special people in your life to express your love, commitment and hopes for your baby’s future.
What kind of ceremony can I have?
A Humanist naming ceremony can take place in almost any location, daytime or evening, indoors or outdoors, and can be dignified and formal or relaxed and fun. It can be as short or as long as you like but a typical ceremony might last around 15-20 minutes. You are free to choose what you would like to be included.
The ceremony
Each ceremony is individual to you and I will meet with you to build up a picture of the child being welcomed, and I then talk with you to plan a personal and appropriate ceremony. You can select the words you want to say when you state your commitment to your child’s future and you can include readings, poems and music. Other ideas that you could include are a naming book, a wishing tree, lighting a candle or planting a tree. I can advise on all aspects if needed.
Your commitments
Your public declarations of love and support are probably the most important part of the ceremony. Most parents focus on the responsibility of being a parent and how they intend to offer their child respect, tolerance, honesty, kindness, humour and their unconditional love and protection.
Supporting Adults
As the ceremony is not religious, your baby won’t have godparents, but you may still want to choose one or two friends or relatives to be your child’s “guide parents” or “supporting adults”. They too may make their promises to your child.
On the day of the ceremony
I will arrive at the venue in good time, and conduct the ceremony. Afterwards I will give you a copy of the script and a certificate for you to keep.
Fees
In line with the British Humanist Association agreed structure, my usual fee for a naming ceremony is £175. If the ceremony is not local, travel expenses may be added.
About me
I live in Heaton, Bradford and have worked in local government, industry and education. I retired from teaching at Bradford College last year. I trained as a Humanist celebrant after attending a Humanist ceremony where I was so impressed with the warmth and sincerity of the occasion and thought that it was something I would like to do for people. I am now accredited to conduct namings, weddings, partnerships and funerals.
When I am not preparing and conducting ceremonies I love to read, travel, go camping and spend time with friends. In addition I sing in two choirs and am a member of a ukulele band.
If you would like to discuss your ceremony you can contact me on 0750 713 6600/01274 484509 or by email valt1@blueyonder.co.uk
Accredited Celebrant
British Humanist Association
