Caesarean for all – new NICE guidelines

The BBC reported last week that NICE (National Institute for health and Clinical Excellence) has changed its guidance so that all pregnant women who want a caesarean birth should be allowed one – regardless of medical need.

NICE do also state that women should be offered counselling and have the risks of a c-section explained to them before they go under the knife.

New guidlines are about reducing c-sections

The intention of the guidelines is to reduce the number of c-sections through offering more women counselling and empowering them to look forward to their birth positively.  This will also be cheaper for the NHS as a c-section is £704 more expensive than a vaginal birth.

Local midwife Lisa Bragg, who teaches Offsprings antenatal classes, says: “I think the  NICE guideline will reduce the number of LSCS (Lower Segment Caesarean Sections) not increase it, because it acknowledges that some women need extra support to acheive a normal birth. I come across a significant amount of women who are worried about giving birth and some who request a LSCS for this reason. In the past, some have been granted this request and in these individual circumstances this has been the right decision. A lot of this often boils down to a fear of loss of control and this is where midwifery support and antenatal classes play an important role.  The key is to empowering women to believe in their bodies.”

Normal birth should still be preferable

Holly from Airedale mums says: “Broadly speaking, I agree with the choice offered by these new guidelines. However, I think the pertinent point we need to address is why women fear birth so much that they would rather risk major abdominal surgery. We know that normal birth is the safest option for the vast majority of women (by normal I mean free of intervention, not just all vaginal births). The revised guidelines don’t lead us toward support for normal birth.”

Making the right choice

MoorMums has spoken to local mum and author Leigh East about making the decision between a vaginal birth and a c-section, especially if you have previously had a c-section, to bring you a special feature.

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COOK comes to Ilkley

A new frozen food store has opened in Ilkley.  COOK opened its doors in October 2011 in the The Moors Shopping Centre (adjacent Spec Savers, fronting the main car park).

The shop is the second franchise for husband and wife team Jonathan & Helen, the first being in Harrogate which was opened in February 2010.

The shop is a family friendly shop, with easy access for prams and pushchairs.

Jonathan (who is a father of 2) from COOK says: “We know from experience that the twilight zone ahead of meal times can bring out the hungry little monster in even the most angelic offspring. To give you a helping hand, we’ve created our new COOK for Kids range using exactly the same ingredients and techniques you would at home. There is plenty of veg (cunningly disguised for fussy ones), and no added salt (although other ingredients may contain some), so you can rustle up something quick and nutritious that tastes freshly made.”

COOK prepares dishes by hand at its Kitchen in Kent, using the same ingredients and techniques that a good COOK would use at home, so everything looks and tastes homemade.

Tasters and events

They do tasters every day in store so you can sample the food.  On Saturday 26th November, they are holding a special ‘Puds and Fizz‘ tasting day.

Special offer

Exclusively for MoorMums, COOK in Ilkley offer a 15% discount on their Kids and baby range.  Terms and conditions apply.

Come and play in the woods in Oakworth

Love the great outdoors?  This group is a great way to get some fresh air and learn new skills at the same time.

Amy Hield and Ben Oram began Come Play in the woods just over a year ago.  After Ben went to visit forest schools in Denmark with his wife and son, he teamed up with Amy, who was delivering outdoor community arts projects with schools. Having learnt something about the value of forest schools Amy and Ben wanted their own children to benefit from the learning experiences the woods have to offer.In September 2010 they began meeting regularly at Griff woods with their own children, while they gained level 3 forest school qualifications, and began inviting other families to join them from November that year.

Since then children and adults have been squelching in the mud, sliding on the ice, moving stones, climbing things, cooking, singing, drinking tea, making bird tables, talking and playing every week (during term time). There are usually between 10 and 30 people at a session and people come from as far and wide as Barnolswick and Addingham, as well as from just around the corner. Ben’s 4 week old Baby now also comes along, to sample the smells and sensations of the weather and the woods.

Amy and Ben have gone on to found a Community Interest Company, attracting a board of early years and special needs teachers, mountaineers and ground works specialists. They are called Aspyrian Outdoor Learning C.I.C and they work to provide high quality outdoor learning experiences for children and young people who may not otherwise get the opportunity to develop through play in a natural environment. Amy says “Aspyrian in an old english word, it means – to track, trace out, seek and discover – and that is exactly what we aim for children to do, to undertake a process of discovery about themselves and the world they live in.”  Their website is www.aspyrian.org.uk .

Come and play in Griff woods in Oakworth every Monday afternoon in term-time and enjoy a cup of tea on the campfire whilst the little ones get dirty investigating nature.  For more details, visit our listing page.

Calling all Ladies!

Wednesday 16th November sees the beautiful Winter Gardens in Ilkley, play host to Ilkley Pre-School Playgroup’s ‘Ladies Night’.  Back by popular demand, the evening provides our guests with the opportunity to indulge in some retail therapy and pampering, courtesy of a number of local businesses and beauty therapists.

Whilst enjoying complimentary tea and cake, ladies are welcome to browse the stalls, which will feature everything from clothes and shoes to toys, books, gifts and yummy treats.  There will be something for everyone, from grandmothers to teenage girls, the perfect opportunity to get some Christmas shopping done, or maybe just to treat yourself!

Alternatively you can take the opportunity to relax and unwind with a complementary manicure or massage treatment from one of the many therapists who have kindly donated their time to support Ilkley pre-school playgroup.

The evening will be rounded off with a Grand Raffle featuring a number of generous prizes, again donated by local businesses and tourist attractions.

All proceeds from the evening will be put to excellent use by Ilkley Pre-School Playgroup, a charitable organisation which has been successfully educating and caring for children aged 2 ½ to 5 years old at the Friends’ Meeting House on Queen’s Road in Ilkley for over 40 years.

Tickets are now on sale at just £5.00 each.  For further information, or to buy your ticket please contact Leonie on 07525 029986 or Beth on 07815 704961.

Stalls confirmed to date include:

  • Angels & Nightingales                   LB Toys and Gifts
  • Attic                                                    Lemon Tree Massage
  • Auburn                                               My Secret Kitchen
  • Bluebell Gifts                                     Nora’s Gifts
  • Cakewalk                                            Pheonix Cards
  • Emma Gary Fabrics                          Retail Therapy
  • Fresh ‘n’ Fruity                                 Sophie Caygill Costume Jewellery
  • Humbug                                             The Book People
  • Ilkley Healing Centre                      The Sewing Shed
  • Jamie at home                                    Touch Beauty
  • Joy Impressions

Ilkley Pre-School Playgroup would like to thank all of the above businesses for their kind support.

Bargain Baby Buys Blog 7th November

By Heather McAvan – visit her blog.

Babies
I’ve just noticed this great buy for babies at Mothercare, was £49.99 now £19.99 (shows up at £24.99 but use code F4DC for £5 off then select deliver to store for free delivery or pay £4.99).

A real bargain!

Toddlers

I’ve just been on a mission to Sainsburys to get my children’s christmas presents. I got my son the Cars 2 Lightning McQueen Remote Control Car for £14.99 should have been £29.99. (sold out online but more in store).

I got the Black and Decker Tool Bench for £29.99 was £59.99.

I also got my niece a Barbie for £2.99. Exactly the same one is £7.99 on  Amazon

I got my other niece a Hello Kitty playhouse for £14.99
£21.50 on Amazon so still a saving

I got a talking telephone for my baby which was
£2.99, is £5.10 on Amazon

All the Cars 2 characters were £2.24 including the Lighning and Mater ones

£3.94 on Amazon which is still a good deal though.

For my other niece I got a My Little Pony Celestia for £10.99, the next cheapest I can find it on Amazon for £17.90

I also got a Transformer for £2.50, Thomas the Tank engine playmat with engine for £4.99,

Lots of bargains, get there quick!

Mummies

I’ve just had an email from OASIS saying they are doing 25% off at the moment using this code GRAZIAAW11.

H&M also sent me an email offering me 50% off one item using code 9536.

The White Companyare also offering 15% off and free delivery at the moment

Crew Clothing are offering free delivery with code FDAFF2

Isabella Oliver are offering two terrific offers for you this week! There’s “25% off 25″ products in the 365 womenswear collection (THE25)! Plus you can save £35 off a £100 spend from the Maternity collection with the “Treat Me” promotion (code TREATME)!

A few months ago, before I went on holiday, I decided to invest in a set of Minx nails for my toes. I had it done in a salon, it took about an hour and cost me £20. I must say included in this was a sort of mini pedicure, cup of tea, and a nice chat with the nail technician.

However, I was pretty excited to see in Boots, that Nails Inc Nail Wraps can be bought in store and applied yourself for a fraction of the cost! These cost me about £7.95 in Boots and I have used them twice already. It takes me about 15 minutes each time and they last a couple of weeks if you apply them properly. All you need to apply them is a hair dryer or some other means of heating the wraps until they go bendy. Then you stick them on your nail, press them on, heat them some more hey presto! After a few gos they look really good and I’m pretty sure no-one could tell they weren’t Minx ones.

New weight watching in pregnancy feature

Being told in early pregnancy that you are ‘over-weight’ can be very shocking and upsetting.  Unfortunately, this is now happening to more and more local mums.

The consequences for your health can be severe.  They include an increased risk of miscarriage and an increased risk of maternal death either in pregnancy or labour.  This is not an issue you can simply ignore and hope it will go away.

Local midwife Lisa Brag tells MoorMums exclusively what the key risks are and importantly, what you can do to safely watch your weight in pregnancy in our special feature.

The key message is – ask for help.  Wanting a healthy life for you and your baby is nothing to be embarrased about.

New baby yoga class in Ilkley

RING NOW!!!  To book your place on the new mum and baby yoga class in Ilkley – 01943 436264.  The class is run by Yogamum and is on Wednesday afternoons at the Children’s Centre.  But crucially, it is only £12 for the 6 week course plus £1 per week refreshments!

The classes are suitable for babies from 6 weeks to crawling.  They are a great way to relax, bond with your baby and strengthen your body too.  Places are limited, so don’t delay.

There are also other new classes starting up – Musical minis in Otley and a weight loss class in Ilkley.

Local events

Visit our events calendar to keep up-to-date with what is going on this month -

If you know of a local event we could add to the calendar, send us the details.

Bargain Baby Buys Blog – 15th Oct

By Heather McAvan. Click here to read her blog.

I’ve been lucky enough recently to have been given lots of things to test and review so just wanted to mention some of those! First of all I was sent this lovely door plaque by one of my fav ebay sellers

I love the shabby chic style and my boys love it too! These cost around £11 including p&p.

I was also sent some lovely slippers by the lovely Ruby and Ed

Slipper Boots £35.

I was also sent the baby version for my little boy:
Baby slipper boots £22.50

I was also sent some hand/foot/finger print jewellery to review from Gifts in Mind
Finger print charm from £28.

At the moment Gifts in Mind are offering 10% off using code bmumb10

Mums
Lots of sales at the moment should you actually have any money! I’ve recently bought this bustier from Coast for £29.

Crew have a 50% off sale starting 12th October Click here for the Crew sale

Kids

These is a deal at the moment at Argos on Peppa Pig’s spaceship £9.32 normally £25. I’ve had a look and there are plenty available locally.



Family Money Saving Ideas

Like any Mummy, I am always looking for ways to save money. Here are some of my top tips that I have gathered over the years!

  • Buy toiletries and household supplies in shops like Home Bargains/B&M Bargains etc, so much cheaper.
  • Plan every meal in advance before going to the supermarket, only buy the actual ingredients you need, save treats for weekends.
  • Buy nappies through Amazon and get them delivered to your door. If you subscribe you can save even more money.
  • Pampers New Baby Size 2 Mini Nappies – 2 x Economy Packs of 62 (124 Nappies)

  • Rather than paying for expensive baby groups etc, find out about your local children’s centre, where activities usually cost around £1.
  • Take drinks along in a sippy cup for your child wherever you go, saving on buying drinks out.
  • Buy stuff on ebay.
  • If you can’t find what you need on ebay use discount codes wherever possible from sites like hotukdeals and buy online.
  • Use quidco when buying online to earn cashback.
  • Find out about local discounts, e.g. in Leeds there is a Leeds card which entitles you to discounts on all local attractions, swimming etc.
  • Create a blog and ask for freebies and discounts on things you like then write about them on your blog!
  • Certain professions, e.g. teachers can get free entry into attractions, take proof of employment (works abroad too!).
  • Print your photos using online websites, not in those instant machines.

New pregnancy features

We’ve been lucky enough to get not 1 but 2 new pregnancy features this week!  Local mum-of-2 and registered dietitian Jean Sullivan has shared with us her top tips for eating well in pregnancy.  She covers what foods to avoid (and why!) and how a healthy diet is important to both yours and your baby’s well-being.

Local community midwife Lisa has also contributed a feature about ‘normal birth‘.  This is all about de-medicalising birth and empowering women to trust their bodies.  Lisa has 7 easy to follow steps to give yourself the best chance of a normal birth.